WRONGLY RIGHT

Have u ever felt completely obsessed by a man??
Where u cant eat, sleep or look at a telephone without thinking about him..??
where u spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong or why he hasn't called, or why he's all of sudden so distant??

I remember that feeling of dread in my stomach..
Well, it doesn't have to be like that..
Just because we're women.. because we're sensitive..
kind, caring.. doesn't mean we have to give ourselves up to keep our man..

In fact, its just the opposite.
Keep our man always moving toward us by reducing their importance in our lives..

I remember him taking over so many of my thoughts that it seemed like he was taking over my life too.. it happening over and over again.. like a broken record.. I couldn't turn off..
I felt humiliated..

Even if u never had a full blown obsession with a man.. where u can barely imagine living without him and always live in fear of him breaking up with u, have u ever run your schedule around him.. made your plans around him.. Wanted to make him happy and make him love u so much that u forgot how to be yourself?? Thought his mood were your fault?? Thought when he withdrew that what u needed to do was be nicer and be more understanding??

Try to reduce the importance of him in your life.. even if he's the most important thing.. dont allow him to become the only important thing.. stop doing all above..
That means, no scheduling around him, no making plans around him, no watching what u say and dont say, no trying to make him happy or make him to love u, no nicer and no understanding when something he does or doesn't do makes u UNHAPPY.. get something else important into your life.. And that would be YOU..

Trust me.. U don't have to do all that when u are with the right man.. RIGHT PERSON makes all the WRONG THINGS seems RIGHT..

xoxo
KasihTia